Cancer and Scorpio are often considered one of the strongest matches in the zodiac. Their compatibility is off the charts – this is a pair that connects on every level: mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Once this pair hits it off, they’re the type to stay together for life.
One of the greatest reasons for the compatibility between Cancer and Scorpio is their symbolic nature: Cancer is the crab, while Scorpio is the scorpion. Both have hard shells, perhaps fearful of letting anyone in. Defensive and self-protective, these are two signs that will do anything to protect their vulnerable side.
Yet, once their armor is pierced—or, for a better word, removed out of trust for the person standing in front of them—Cancer and Scorpio show themselves to be equally soft, caring, and loving. Their underbellies are tender, making these two some of the most emotive, sweet, gentle souls around, despite their scary exteriors.
Cancer and Scorpio value emotional connection above all else, which is why they make such a powerful match and are so compatible. The feelings between these two signs are powerful, and they simply ‘get’ each other without even trying. There’s a telepathy between Cancer and Scorpio that simply feels, well, magical.
Is a Cancer and Scorpio a Good Match?
Asking if Cancer and Scorpio are a good match is like asking if the sky is blue or if trees like being in a forest. It goes without saying that Cancer and Scorpio are one of the strongest matches out there; they’re built to last. So, the answer is no – Cancer and Scorpio aren’t just a good match; they’re a great match. A perfect match, some might say. There’s a sweet flow here that feels easy and effortless, comfortable, as if they have known each other since the very beginning of time.
Matches like these seldom happen in anyone’s lifetime and, thus, should be treasured and appreciated. This match also tends to get better and better as time goes on, with Cancer and Scorpio becoming even closer and more connected. As Cancer and Scorpio learn to trust each other, their bond simply deepens.
Because Cancer and Scorpio are both water signs, they tend to crave emotional security above all else. This means that they need and want to feel safe and secure, whatever they’re doing – whether in business or pleasure. Because they both want the same thing, this relationship is set to be one for the books, where each sign feels incredibly seen, held, and wanted. There’s no shame here when it comes to wanting to feel like they’re emotionally secure. Cancer and Scorpio don’t see each other as needy because their needs are exactly the same.
These water signs are also, generally speaking, introverted. They like spending time with each other, cuddling, feeling, dreaming, watching their favorite series, and being close. Cancer and Scorpio can also have a very good time when they are in the right mood. The best thing is that they understand that the mood has to be right before they do anything, which makes Cancer and Scorpio even more compatible overall.
Are Cancer and Scorpio Soulmates?
If there were any couple that could be called soulmates, it would be Cancer and Scorpio. These are two signs that truly believe in the concept of spiritual connection, putting them on the same page. Their souls will absolutely ‘know’ each other on a deeper level than they can comprehend mentally. Thus, the resonance that occurs when Cancer and Scorpio meet is extremely strong because they recognize each other on a soul level. Soulmates are also said to be most compatible with each other, most at home. Soulmates are made to be with each other for life, which is a very strong possibility with Cancer and Scorpio.
This soul connection will help Cancer and Scorpio get through even the hardest times together. They will stay strong, knowing that they have met each other for a reason. Their telepathy and empathy for each other is powerful, strong, and beyond what words can say. Soul compatibility is a real thing that Cancer and Scorpio will experience firsthand for themselves.
Why are Scorpio and Cancer so Attracted?
Even if they keep it fairly quiet at first, Cancer and Scorpio will usually find each other highly drawn to each other, like magnets. They just can’t help but be attracted to one another, knowing, deep down, that they have met their perfect match, the one who is most compatible with them.
Cancer and Scorpio will also be attracted to each other due to their emotional compatibility, feeling that they have finally found someone ‘safe,’ someone who can hold their storms, calm them, and understand and empathize with them. Cancer’s emotions are always changing, just like the Moon that they are ruled by. Scorpio gets it – they, too, are continually in the whirl of feelings, though they tend to be a touch more consistent. They provide a safe haven for the Cancer to anchor, whereas Cancer will know when to give Scorpio the space they need versus the close comfort they might be seeking. Very few people understand Scorpios this way, and Scorpios will treasure and love it forever.
Cancer and Scorpio also tend to sense each other’s depths, and they resonate with it. They understand how each of their emotions can go. They’re not frightened or overwhelmed by each other’s feelings. They can withstand the ups and downs. They’re both acutely attuned to needing someone who can bear witness without running away. This is part of why Cancer and Scorpio are so attracted to one another.
It also has to be said that Scorpio is one of those very sexy, magnetic signs – people can’t help but be attracted to them, and Cancer is no exception. Their mysterious aura draws Cancer to them like beads to a jewel. Cancer has a similar energy. They’re not quite as passionate, but their nurturing energy has a certain sexiness to it, too. Scorpio feels intensely safe with them, which allows them to drop their guard in a way they haven’t been able to with many people before.
How are Cancer and Scorpio in Bed?
The ruling planets of Cancer and Scorpio ensure that these two will be an excellent match in the bedroom. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, the emotional planet, whereas Mars, the planet of passion, rules Scorpio. Thus, when the Moon-Mars energy combines, what’s created is emotional passion. Feelings and chemistry go hand in hand, making for powerful, deep, and even transformative bedroom experiences. The more these two open up and learn to trust each other, the more they’ll find they share the same tastes and desires.
This physical connection also tends to go beyond just pleasure, delving deeper into the realms of spiritual connection. Being with each other in a sensual way opens up room for powerful connection and vulnerability – feelings of safety arise when Cancer and Scorpio share their bodies with each other. They also tend to have the same approach when it comes to ‘being in the mood’ – both understand that when they’re not in the space for physical connection, they need to give each other room. Neither is likely to take it the wrong way, knowing that if their heart isn’t in it, it’s not the right time. This provides a great deal of relief during those rare moments when their libidos aren’t in alignment.
Where are the Problem Areas for Cancer and Scorpio?
Like any relationship, Cancer and Scorpio will have their problems. It’s part of the course. Given their natural compatibility, the truth is that the difficult moments should be few and far between unless both are emotionally immature, in which case things could prove somewhat challenging. If this is the case, then it could be that Cancer and Scorpio might end up lashing out in an emotional rage and really hurting each other. Because these two know each other so well, so deeply, they know just where to hit where it hurts the most. They know how to push each other’s buttons. The dark side of both of these signs is the tendency to be emotionally manipulative.
If this does happen, both Cancer and Scorpio need to take a step back and work a little harder on themselves. They have to take emotional responsibility and ensure that they own their feelings instead of making each other the rescuer and savior. There is the danger that these two become so emotionally meshed that they end up codependent or playing out the rescuer/victim roles.
The other danger is that because both tend to deploy fear of being hurt, they tend toward emotional self-protection. This can make Cancer and Scorpio become quite alienated from one another, pulling away from each other and becoming quite cold and shut down. Of course, this never helps, so both signs need to learn when to open up and simply trust each other a little more.
Author Bio - Margarita Celeste
Margarita Celeste is a practicing professional astrologer with a deep-rooted passion for Eastern Astrology. Her astrology studies began with her uncle, before three years of formal studies in Traditional Astrology under the tutelage of renowned astrologer and shaman Rod Suskin, graduating with distinction and a scholarship. Since 2015, Margarita has established a successful full-time astrology practice, “Margarita Celeste Astrology & Tarot.” She consults clients, writes for popular websites and apps, and teaches astrology courses for beginners and intermediate students.
