Let’s explore the intricacies of Cancer compatibility. Cancer, the sign of the cosmic crab, is one of the most loving, sensitive, and caring signs in the entire zodiac. Being loved by a Cancer feels like being wrapped in a soft, fluffy blanket with a warm cup of tea. It’s the feeling of being heard, seen, and understood. It’s endless empathy, precious sentimentality, and sweet memories.
Yet, it may not seem all that easy sometimes to pierce the hard outer shell of the sensitive crab. Defensive and fearful of being hurt, Cancerians tend to scuttle away from vulnerability, scared that their past wounds will arise or that their soft inner core will be penetrated. Thus, it takes gentle, loving persistence to get these signs to truly open up. Once they do, they are the ultimate marshmallows, devoted and loving towards their partners.
So, who of the rest of the zodiac signs are lucky enough to be with this one-of-a-kind water sign? Who is their perfect match? When it comes to Cancer compatibility, what sign would be most compatible?
Luckily, there are a few more than just one sign that matches well with Cancer. Keep reading to discover which signs are best matched, the most compatible, soulmates, who a Cancer is likely to marry, what their Love Language is, and who they may not be so compatible with:
What is Cancer's Best Match?
One should always look at which signs share the same or similar elements for true Cancer compatibility. The other two water signs—Pisces and Scorpio—tend to be great with Cancer. They just ‘get’ each other. The feelings flow here. The earth signs—Virgo, Taurus, and Capricorn—also make a great match for Cancer. They contain the energy of water and hold it, making it feel safe and secure.
But out of all of these, which sign(s) are the best match for Cancer?
Well, it has to be a tie between Scorpio and Taurus. Incidentally, these two signs are opposite one another, so are ‘same, same, but different’. They give the same loyal, grounding energy to Cancer, which is exactly what they need to feel safe. See, feeling safe is an enormous priority for a typical crab. If they feel as if their partner can withstand their (many) moods and still be there, they feel completely held and thus have the ability to give all of their generous love. Scorpios, in particular, tend to be just as deep and intense as Cancer. They also understand Cancer because they, too, have a protective shell that hides their soft underbellies. Sure, things can get a little spiky when both of these signs are in a mood, but overall, Cancer and Scorpio are extremely compatible and make an excellent match for each other.
Cancer Compatibility: What is Cancer's Best Soulmate?
It’s one thing to have a good match, but it’s another entirely to have a soulmate. Who, of all the signs, might be said to be the Cancerian’s true soulmate? Their best soulmate?
There can only be one winner here, and that sign is the tender, sweet, romantic Pisces. This water sign, like Cancer, is caring, empathetic, and deeply compassionate. Being so moody and changeable themselves makes them understand the shifting tides of the Cancerian’s inner landscape. They flow with Cancer easily, adapting and understanding. The depths that these two can reach together are nothing short of remarkable. There’s a sense that they knew each other a long, long time ago—maybe in a past life. Their relationship feels easy, if sometimes a little too intense and emotional. Soulmates can be like that—sometimes you can’t live with them, but you certainly can’t live without them either.
It may be important to keep in mind that Pisceans might not be the most stable match for Cancer unless they have plenty of earth signs in their Birth Charts. Pisces are drifters, dreamers, mystics. They’re not necessarily always going to make Cancer feel totally secure. Yet, both of these signs seem to be aware that, for the moment, their love is higher, deeper, and stronger than any other kind of love that they’ve ever experienced before.
What is Cancer's Worst Match?
Which of the zodiac signs might be said to be the worst match for the Cancerian? Which of the signs wouldn’t help us understand the ever-changing moods and phases of the sensitive crab?
The first bunch of signs would be the fire signs—Leo, Sagittarius, and Aries. Out of these, however, Aries tends to be the one that stands out the most as perhaps not the best match for Cancer. The funny thing is that Cancers and Aries are often extremely drawn to each other. There’s something about Aries that inspires the Cancerian’s natural nurturing energy. Aries also loves to be taken care of the way that Cancer takes care of them.
So, there’s something about these two that does work, but it can be very volatile. The fire of the Aries—their independence, confrontational nature, and impatience with the Cancerian mood can drive the Cancer to tears at times. In turn, Cancer may feel the Aries selfish and inconsiderate, not knowing that they have to be the one to communicate their needs so that Aries actually gets it. These two can make it with work, but it will take time and understanding.
Cancer Compatibility: What Sign Should Cancer Marry?
Marriage is an important component of Cancer compatibility. Most Cancerians dream of their wedding day. They are such romantics that it makes it impossible to quell their excitement. And why should we? Few people get as thrilled about tying the knot as these sentimental crabs. They love the idea of making a home with their beloved and often dream of homes all over the world, as they love to wander.
Which zodiac sign would be willing to take that journey with them? Literally as well as figuratively?
Well, interestingly enough, sometimes the fire sign of Sagittarius, although not totally compatible, can make a great partner for the Cancerian—if the Cancer in question wants to explore and travel the world. Yet, if the Cancer is in another type of phase, the type where they want children and a home, then the Sagittarius makes a terrible marriage partner. In this case, Cancer should marry someone like Taurus. Taureans are solid, grounded, reliable, and patient. They will stand by the side of Cancer come rain or shine. Their calm energy makes the Cancer feel safe, secure, and seen. These two just love to snuggle up together on the couch after a long, hard week and enjoy each other’s company and companionship. After all, is that not what makes a great marriage?
Virgo also makes a great life partner for Cancer, being another earth sign. Virgo is perhaps the one other sign that worries as much about everyone as Cancer does. This is a sign that loves to serve, lives to help others, including their spouse. They love taking care of practical matters so that Cancer can be creative and use their prolific imagination. Cancer, in turn, takes equal care of the sometimes fussy and anxious Virgo, making them feel accepted just as they are.
Who is Cancer Not Compatible With?
Are there any other signs that don’t make a good match with Cancer? That aren’t so good when it comes to Cancer compatibility? Yes, absolutely. The first of these is the air sign Gemini. Entertaining and witty as they are, Gemini people tend to be flighty and non-committal, likely triggering every single one of the Cancer’s insecurities. Gemini people can also be what looks to Cancer as cold and rational. The total opposite of their empathetic and emotional nature. These two seem to misunderstand each other a great deal of the time, so unless other connections in their birth charts are strong, they may struggle a little.
Aquarius can also be a tough match for Cancer, as it is an air sign and is equally independent and ‘cold’. Aquarians are highly logical and usually very avoidant of ‘messy’ emotions. From their viewpoint, the Cancer is, most of the time, overreacting. This hurts the Cancer more than they realize, which can cause rifts in their connection. Aquarians will need to work a little harder to relate emotionally, whereas Cancer will need to do their best not to take things so personally. Aquarians also love their freedom and space and may, at times, feel suffocated by Cancer’s need to be close to them at all times.
What is Cancer's Love Language?
Have you ever heard of Love Languages? There are five of them, coined by Gary Chapman. Of these five, the Cancer’s two top Love Languages are Touch and Quality Time. Cancerians just love to cuddle, be held, hold others, and show affection. If they’re in the mood, of course. If a Cancer is not in the mood, they can be crabby and closed off, but their partner will come to learn to read those moods and adapt.
Quality time is usually also a big deal for Cancer, as they love it when their partner takes time out to just be with them. It shows that they are willing to give up precious moments and dedicate it to them, which warms their hearts endlessly.
Author Bio - Margarita Celeste
Margarita Celeste is a practicing professional Astrologer with a fervent passion for the language of the cosmos. She has witnessed the life-changing effects this ancient art can have on her clients and students and is honoured to support, guide and facilitate this healing process. Margarita has a Jungian (Transpersonal Psychology) approach as well as a special interest in relationship astrology, both topics that hold an important place in her heart.
